The most beautiful things in life never come easy. You have to work hard for them to deserve them. And then, once you get them, you have to fight for them to keep them safe.
If finding a perfect relationship, or a perfect partner was that easy, the value of true genuine love would have been lost a long time ago.
Love wasn’t designed to be simple. No one ever said it would be easy. Relationships were never meant to be perfect.
Love is and will be the most beautiful feeling in the world. But, love requires work. It is not all sunshine and rainbows. And it’s definitely not all kisses and walks in the park.
There is a dark side to every relationship which most of us prefer to avoid. Some even say that a relationship they have to fight for, it’s not a relationship worth having.
But, little do they know that overcoming and surviving that “dark side” is what actually makes the relationship million times stronger. It’s the ultimate stepping stone to a loving and long-lasting bond.
That so-called “dark side” involves all of those difficult phases. The ones we tend to fast-forward. All of those fights, all of those obstacles along the way, all of our energy we’ve wasted and every effort we’ve made for the relationship to work out.
But, in the end, once we overcome these challenges and obstacles along the way, this so-called “dark side” also helps us realize that our love for our partners has only grown stronger.
It’s simple. The reason why every relationship is difficult is because as humans, we’re truly challenging creatures to deal with.
Each and every one of us has a set of unique, individual trains. All of us have different perspectives, ideas, goals in life. Every single human being on this planet is different.
What’s even more important is the fact that all of us have our own crazy combinations of imperfections and silly little flaws. So, it is only natural for some of us to not be able to find someone who would be 100% compatible with us.
But, here’s the thing. No matter how hard you try, you will never find a perfect, fairytale relationship.
Do you know what matters the most?
The mutual desire to look past those obstacles and fight against all odds to make something work.
When two people are ready to be together, they will do everything in their power to make that happen. When two beautiful flawed souls are willing to set aside every difference that gets in their way for the sake of something greater, that is the definition of true love, right there.
Because when the feeling is real, and the emotions are mutual, it means that these people are prepared to fight everything that threatens their love and confront every mental, emotional or physical challenge that stands in their way.
When the love is pure, miracles happen. When the love is genuine everything else just feels like a background noise. You don’t choose what part you like, and what part you dislike. You actually fall in love with every bit of their soul, especially those silly little flaws.
True love is not finding the perfect relationship. True love is two, beautiful, imperfect human beings willing to make things work and fight for their love against all odds and despite all the obstacles.
A professional writer with many years of experience in the fields of psychology, human relationships, science, and spirituality.