This Is How You Love Someone Unconditionally And Free From Attachment

What does loving someone unconditionally mean? I know many will say: “Unconditional love means loving someone no matter what.”

No. That is not what unconditional love means. That’s a lack of self-respect. That’s neediness. That’s attachment. And these things have nothing to do with pure, honest, unconditional love.

Believing that “loving someone no matter what” is what makes up unconditional love is wrong because that means that you’re going to stay with that person irrespective of the way he/ treats you or others. It means that you’re supposed to ignore their faults. It means you’re supposed to put up with everything they put you through.

But, this is not how you love someone unconditionally.

To love someone this way means not being dependent on them for your happiness and fulfillment.  It means not putting aside and ignoring your own feelings, needs, and problems. It means not allowing yourself to be mistreated or abused. It means not forgetting about your importance.

It means loving and taking care of the other person while loving and taking care of yourself.

When you’re unconditionally in love with someone, your love knows no boundaries. You love them so deeply that just the thought of them makes you feel warm on the inside and your heart skip a beat.

You love being around them and you miss them terribly when they’re not around. You feel you’re deeply connected with them on an emotional, mental, and spiritual level, and that this bond is unbreakable.

You know they’re the one who understands you the most. The one who knows your essence. The one who has managed to reach the deepest parts of your soul.

When you love someone unconditionally, you accept and cherish them for who they are. You’re aware of all their insecurities, annoying habits, fears, problems, and failures, and still, you decide to stay. Still, you make them your choice.

You don’t try to change them or mold them into the person you want them to be. You understand that their flaws and weaknesses are what make the person they are – the person who occupies the most precious place in your heart.

When you love someone unconditionally, you don’t judge and criticize them when they make a mistake or get emotional, moody, or afraid. You don’t make them feel less important because of their past mistakes and failures.

Instead, you show understanding of their problems and insecurities and try your best to help them overcome them.

When you’re unconditionally in love with someone, you keep the original flame of passion always alive. You remember how you felt at the beginning of the relationship, and you make sure you keep feeling that way after that, no matter if you’ve been together for six months or six years.

When you feel unconditional love for someone, your appreciation for life increases. Everything around you gets a new meaning and appears more interesting to you.

When you love someone unconditionally, you love them free of attachment.

You don’t love them because you depend on them or because they make you feel comfortable. You don’t love them because you think you’ll never find someone better than them or someone who will be willing to accept your imperfections.

Instead, you love them because what you feel for them is pure, deep, and honest. It’s free of expectations and attachment. Because you know they’re worthy of your love and trust. Because you feel free to be yourself in their presence.  Because you feel like you’ve never felt like in your life before.

Because you know you didn’t make a mistake choosing them.

 

Riley Cooper is a professional writer who writes informative and creative articles on topics related to various fields of study. Written with love and enthusiasm, her articles inspire readers to broaden their knowledge of the world, think and get ready to act.